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End All the Arguing!
Get rid of the anger, difficult communication and arguing that often lead to chaos and damaged or even destroyed relationships...
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In Partnership with Breakthrough, we are offering:
Live, In-Person Event!
Breakthrough 2023 Communication Workshop
To help you:
Find Alternatives to Arguing that Actually Work!
Rekindle the Romance with Your Partner.
Manage Relationships with Your Adult Children (especially when there are grandchildren to play with!)
Deal better in Your Work Environment.
Feel Closer than Ever to Your Family and Friends with...
Simpatico Connection: The 2-Day Live, In-Person Workshop That Produces Immediate Results
Sign Up Today!
There is NO better time because...
- You are ready for contentment in your marriage without all the endless arguing and always feeling angry. Or worse, heading to divorce.
- You're sick and tired of feeling criticized, unappreciated, defensive or unheard in important relationships.
- You've had enough of feeling "stuck" in a home or work relationship that is filled with difficult communication or others trying to control your life.
- You don't like being triggered or letting others push your buttons, so you're ready for communication skills that are so powerful, they produce results almost instantly!
Maybe you've tried other methods but they didn't work.
There are a lot of workshops, communications classes, therapy and counseling methods that promise to help.
Over time, they haven't had "staying power."
✅ They may not have helped you resolve those endless arguments.
✅ They may not have helped you meet your needs or set boundaries without hurting feelings.
✅ They may not have helped you to avoid feeling unappreciated or criticized.
If only...
If only there was something everyone could quickly learn that would have an INSTANT IMPACT on the way we get along in everyday life and for any type of relationship.
If only there was a system that helps us discover lasting strategies that could help us to feel seen, heard, and valued in all situations.
If only there was someone to walk us through strong systems for:
- keeping conversations from turning into a fight
- confidently being able to meet our needs
- offering our points without hurting anyone's feelings
If only...there was a way to know our value, not only with our partners but also in every relationship we have with...anyone!
Then, you could enjoy:
- Truly Fulfilling Relationships. Discover groundbreaking techniques that are easy to learn and practice so that you can create the life you've always wanted.
- Convey what you want without hurting the feelings of those around you. Discover the #1 method that helps you ask for what you need without criticizing or offending. Let people know what you want while they still feel heard and valued and closer to you
- Possibly avoid divorce or dissolution of an important partnership. While nothing is foolproof and no one can see the future, experts agree that one of the biggest causes of divorce (and other dissolutions like breaking up a business partnership or band) is poor communication like arguing, bickering, fighting, and general conflict.
This course shows you how to avoid or navigate these types of conversations so that you and those around you feel closer than ever.
Simpatico Connection Gives You The Tools and Confidence You Need To STOP the Fighting and Feel Closer...
Without Having to Change Who You Are
THIS 6-WEEK COURSE IS CREATED FOR ANYONE IN ANY TYPE OF COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP WHO IS READY TO STEP INTO DEEPER, MORE CONNECTED, AND MORE FULFILLING LIFE WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST TO YOU.
(Caution: this course may cause long-term marriages, leading to years of love and laughter, watching your family grow, playing with the grandkids and rocking on the front porch together... It may also cause stronger work relationships and partnerships that value each other's opinions. It may also cause a bout of Massive Self-Confidence for which there may never be a cure!)
Sign Me UpHear Their Stories...
From Almost Another COVID Divorce to Closer Than Ever!
How J went from always feeling defensive and criticized, how his wife went from feeling not listened to for years — decades — how they went from hurting each other's feelings to finding alternatives that brought them closer. →
Newfound Confidence to Lead At Work...
How this client went from feeling too insecure to step in during meetings at work to express her thoughts and valuable opinion on how to fix certain situations to now being able to jump in and use her skills to get greater clarity and thus create much-needed peace and harmony at her job. (Not to mention how she uses the skills in her marriage...)
Register NowWELCOME TO
Simpatico Connection
The proven system that takes you from struggling in your relationships to creating lasting connections with your partner, colleagues, friends, and family... with results starting in the first week.
The truth is most relationships don't fail because people don't try hard enough. And they don't fail because we are disinterested or don't care.
Being able to make our marriages and other important relationships happy, fulfilling, and successful usually comes down to knowledge and skill.
To keep their relationship engaging and fun, successful people need to avoid the kinds of mistakes that get them stuck.
Most People get stuck because:
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They Try To Fix Everything
Many people are fixers by nature. So what if the problem is that they are faced with complaining?
They don't always know how to fix that.
Because every time they try to do something, it's not enough, and it doesn't fix the problem.
It's not only frustrating, they feel like their very manhood (for some men) or value (for some women) is being compromised because here is something they cannot fix.
They feel out of control — unable to handle problems and fix them. Especially in front of the people they fear failing in front of or those they care so much about.
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They Don't Know How To Deal With Others' Emotions.
Especially when those emotions get difficult.
Husbands often try to do something like offer ineffective gestures like buying gifts or bringing home flowers.
Wives sometimes don't know how to say what they need without sounding critical or passive-aggressive.
Work environments tend to ignore emotions as if they have no place there, so many people end up stuffing them away.
But people rarely stop and listen, really listen.
That's why it so often feels like they try and try and it's never enough...
They don't always know how to help others feel heard and valued and respected.
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A Little-Known Truth About True Listening...
Most people really, really want to be heard. But few take the time to actually listen to others.
Oh, they will argue that they do hear.
They will even repeat, word-for-word what someone has just told them (triumphantly, no less).
But their victorious "listening" skills only show that they are capable of hearing and repeating, not understanding and empathizing.
They don't realize that their partners, friends, colleagues and family members have tapped into the fact that...
These people are "checked out" and sometimes even after many years, the relationship lacks intimacy and connection.
That's why Simpatico Connection gives you proven methods without the confusion and mystery.
Simpatico Connection: helping you turn your tumultuous relationships into
✅ a thriving marriage
✅ a more successful business partnership
✅ or more fulfilling connections altogether
WE'VE HELPED HUNDREDS OF COUPLES FIND THEIR WAY BACK TO EACH OTHER, AND SO CAN YOU. WE'VE ALSO HELPED SO MANY PEOPLE FIND THEIR VOICE IN THE WORKPLACE, WITH THEIR IN-LAWS AND CHILDREN...
THE APPLICATIONS FOR THIS METHOD ARE ENDLESS AND OH, SO HELPFUL.
You'll gain the knowledge to choose the productive path in any conflict. With exact formulas that have worked for decades.
We make it easy for you to get along better than ever, while still getting your needs met, avoiding hurt feelings, and feeling more in control.
We show you how these skills help navigate issues in the workplace, dealing with kids, in-laws, and other challenging relationships.
Reserve My SeatMeet Your Instructors
Lee and Arnie are coauthors of the acclaimed new book: Hear Here: Effective Communication, Engaging With Our Aware, Loving Heart.
Lee Garland
Lee has led workshops for over three decades as well as provided mediation, support groups, and leadership training.
His work as a facilitator with Breakthrough has helped numerous people for years.
His lively style and knowledge of Effective Communication is evident in his workshops.
Lee is a father to three amazing women and a growing number of grandchildren (5 and counting).
Arnie Buss
Communication skills have enhanced every relationship in Arnie's life. So much so that he's been leading workshops for the past 10 years.
His mission is to spread the benefits of Effective Communication to all.
He teaches at the postgraduate level and lives with his wife of over 40 years.
He enjoys his grandchildren, going to Toastmasters, and playing the violin.
Simpatico Connection
Discover the little-known method for finding deeper fulfillment and stronger connection with your partner
This 6-week course gives couples the skills they need to navigate or avoid arguments.
It offers communication skills that step in where others fall short.
Based on the teachings of Selwa Said's Effective Communication, Simpatico Connection is truly effective in real-life situations.
And truly life-changing!
Here's What to Expect:
Identify 5 Most Challenging Conversations
- We call these "Conversational Contexts" to distinguish them from regular conversations.
- Get 100% crystal clear on the specific context of any conversation or interaction.
- Find the most effective way to respond to any conversation.
Begin getting results in real time!
Discover Why These Conversations Are So Challenging
- Discover reasons you tend to "Get Triggered" and reach in certain situations and find ways to control those responses.
- Find new ways to respond from a place of love and compassion...no matter what is being thrown at you.
- No, we wont hold hands, cry and sing Kumbaya by the fire... We will, however engage in a little soul searching and history unpacking.
Self exploration to help in your commitment to a stronger relationship!
The Most Powerful Communication Tool for All Situations: Tracking — Respond Rather Than React
- We call it "Tracking" and this is hands down the #1 most effective way to respond to your partner (and anyone, really) in any conversation and context.
- Understand how the communication under the words matter much more than words themselves.
- A response technique so effective, it is known to take a raging man down to a calm place (by an elderly woman, no less!) like a magic power.
Wow your partner by how deeply you can now "get" her!
Mastering Emotions: Respond from your aware, loving heart (and why this is so important...and powerful)
- Revealed! The power of coming at all conversations from a heart-centered place...no matter how the conversation started.
- Allows you to connect from a place where nobody is criticized or judged.
- The powerful tools that really allow you to respond rather than react in almost any situation and with nearly anyone.
No one is perfect. This weekend gives you insanely powerful tools to clear up missteps!
Communication in Tricky Situations: Stronger Tracking Skills for Stronger Results
- How to ask questions without...asking questions. This is perfect for getting information without escalating conflict.
- Responding to [entrapping] questions can be tricky and often lead to an argument. Learn this simple formula to help you avoid feeling cornered.
- Stuck? Arguments still going round and round even after 4 weeks? Well, not anymore. Discover the one technique that can "unstick" practically any stuck person.
Unstick any "stuck" conversation to keep it from spinning aimlessly or out of control.
Handle Criticism Like a PRO
- Get a technique that can immediately diffuse criticism.
- Gain the confidence to respond effectively to criticism in nearly any situation and with almost everyone.
- Create an immediate loving connection with your partner even in the face of conflict.
Get the Confidence to handle criticism like a PRO!
Simpatico Connection
Special Breakthrough Pricing!
100% Satisfaction GUARANTEED!
No Questions asked!
Arnie and Lee believe in the Simpatico Communication Method so much, that they are willing to stake their claim on its power.
If you are not 100% satisfied with the course after attending the first 3 sessions and doing the work, let us know, and we will refund you 100% of your tuition for this program—no questions asked.
The only thing we do ask is this:
You must attend the whole weekend training and do the work. If you're unsatisfied with the training, let Arnie or Lee know immediately after the workshop ends at 4pm, and you will be refunded in full.
And you can keep your workbook!
2-Day Workshop at the Beautiful Asilomar Conference Center
Register Today!
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Conversational Contexts
Get Clear On the 5 Most Challenging Conversations
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Triggers
Discover why some conversations can be so hard and find out what to do about it
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Communication Superhero
Tracking: Learn to Respond Rather than React
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Mastering Emotions
Respond from your aware, loving heart (and why this is so important...and powerful)
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Tricky Situations
Avoid arguments by Tracking through entrapping questions and more
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Handle Criticism Like a Pro
Conflict and criticism happen, but you can break free from the chaos they oftentimes create
Don't miss your chance to create a deeper and more fulfilling relationship with your partner, family, co-workers, and, frankly, anyone in your life!
This Simpatico Connection Workshop is in partnership with Breakthrough.
Breakthrough's vision:
"Growing an ever-expanding community of men, reflecting the diversity of human experience. Liberating each other from deep-rooted patterns of thinking, feeling and reacting. Transforming lives and communities."
Enroll today!
Enroll in Simpatico Connection
Your marriage and other important relationships improving with every week can be yours with this 6-week course. Grab your seat Today!
Sign Me UpFAQ
HOW DOES THIS WORKSHOP WORK EXACTLY?
HOW IS THIS DIFFERENT THAN MARSHALL ROSENBERG'S WORK ON NONVIOLENT COMMUNICATION?
ARE MEALS AND LODGING INCLUDED?
HOW MUCH DOES IT COST?
DOES THIS WORKSHOP ADDRESS HOW NOT TO LOSE CONROL OF EMOTIONS?
IS THERE A GUARANTEE?
